mother’s influence:–‘My mother asked me never to use tobacco; I have
never touched it from that time to the present day. She asked me not to
gamble, and I have never gambled. I cannot tell who is losing in games
that are being played. She admonished me, too, against liquor-drinking,
and whatever capacity for endurance I have at present, and whatever
usefulness I may have attained through life, I attribute to having
complied with her pious and correct wishes. When I was seven years of
age she asked me not to drink, and then I made a resolution of total
abstinence; and that I have adhered to it through all time I owe to my
mother.”
I never saw anything so curious. It is almost an exact epitome of my own
moral career–after simply substituting a grandmother for a mother. How
well I remember my grandmother’s asking me not to use tobacco, good old
soul! She said, “You’re at it again, are you, you whelp? Now don’t ever
let me catch you chewing tobacco before breakfast again, or I lay I’ll
blacksnake you within an inch of your life!” I have never touched it at
that hour of the morning from that time to the present day.
She asked me not to gamble. She whispered and said, “Put up those wicked
cards this minute!–two pair and a jack, you numskull, and the other
fellow’s got a flush!”
I never have gambled from that day to this–never once–without a “cold
deck” in my pocket. I cannot even tell who is going to lose in games
that are being played unless I deal myself.
When I was two years of age she asked me not to drink, and then I made a
resolution of total abstinence. That I have adhered to it and enjoyed
the beneficent effects of it through all time, I owe to my grandmother.
I have never drunk a drop from that day to this of any kind of water.
HONORED AS A CURIOSITY
If you get into conversation with a stranger in Honolulu, and experience
that natural desire to know what sort of ground you are treading on by
finding out what manner of man your stranger is, strike out boldly and
address him as “Captain.” Watch him narrowly, and if you see by his
countenance that you are on the wrong track, ask him where he preaches.
It is a safe bet that he is either a missionary or captain of a whaler.
I became personally acquainted with seventy-two captains and ninety-six
missionaries. The captains and ministers form one-half of the
population; the third fourth is composed of common Kanakas and mercantile
foreigners and their families; and the final fourth is made up of high
officers of the Hawaiian Government. And there are just about cats
enough for three apiece all around.
A solemn stranger met me in the suburbs one day, and said:
“Good morning, your reverence. Preach in the stone church yonder, no
doubt!”
“No, I don’t. I’m not a preacher.”
“Really, I beg your pardon, captain. I trust you had a good season. How
much oil–”
“Oil! Why, what do you take me for? I’m not a whaler.”
“Oh! I beg a thousand pardons, your Excellency. Major-General in the
household troops, no doubt? Minister of the Interior, likely? Secretary
of War? First Gentleman of the Bedchamber? Commissioner of the Royal–”
“Stuff, man! I’m not connected in any way with the government.”
“Bless my life! Then who the mischief are you? what the mischief are
you? and how the mischief did you get here? and where in thunder did you
come from?”
“I’m only a private personage–an unassuming stranger–lately arrived
from America.”
” No! Not a missionary! not a whaler! not a member of his Majesty’s
government! not even a Secretary of the Navy! Ah! Heaven! it is too
blissful to be true, alas! I do but dream. And yet that noble, honest
countenance–those oblique, ingenuous eyes–that massive head, incapable
of–of anything; your hand; give me your hand, bright waif. Excuse these
tears. For sixteen weary years I have yearned for a moment like this,
and–”
Here his feelings were too much for him, and he swooned away. I pitied