EVERYBODY’S BUSINESS IS NOBODY’S BUSINESS

for a lawgiver, and therefore shall lay down no certain rules,

humbly submitting in all things to the wisdom of our legislature.

What I offer shall be under correction; and upon conjecture, my

utmost ambition being but to give some hints to remedy this growing

evil, and leave the prosecution to abler hands.

And first it would be necessary to settle and limit their wages,

from forty and fifty shillings to four and five pounds per annum,

that is to say, according to their merits and capacities; for

example, a young unexperienced servant should have forty shillings

per annum, till she qualifies herself for a larger sum; a servant

who can do all household work, or, as the good women term it, can

take her work and leave her work, should have four pounds per

annum; and those who have lived seven years in one service, should

ever after demand five pounds per annum, for I would very fain have

some particular encouragements and privileges given to such

servants who should continue long in a place; it would incite a

desire to please, and cause an emulation very beneficial to the

public.

I have heard of an ancient charity in the parish of St. Clement’s

Danes, where a sum of money, or estate, is left, out of the

interest or income of which such maid-servants, who have lived in

that parish seven years in one service, receive a reward of ten

pounds apiece, if they please to demand it.

This is a noble benefaction, and shows the public spirit of the

donor; but everybody’s business is nobody’s; nor have I heard that

such reward has been paid to any servant of late years. A thousand

pities a gift of that nature should sink into oblivion, and not be

kept up as an example to incite all parishes to do the like.

The Romans had a law called Jus Trium Liberorum, by which every man

who had been a father of three children, had particular honours and

privileges. This incited the youth to quit a dissolute single life

and become fathers of families, to the support and glory of the

empire.

In imitation of this most excellent law, I would have such

servants, who should continue many years in one service, meet with

singular esteem and reward.

The apparel of our women-servants should be next regulated, that we

may know the mistress from the maid. I remember I was once put

very much to the blush, being at a friend’s house, and by him

required to salute the ladies, I kissed the chamber-jade into the

bargain, for she was as well dressed as the best. But I was soon

undeceived by a general titter, which gave me the utmost confusion;

nor can I believe myself the only person who has made such a

mistake.

Things of this nature would be easily avoided, if servant-maids

were to wear liveries, as our footmen do; or obliged to go in a

dress suitable to their station. What should ail them, but a

jacket and petticoat of good yard-wide stuff, or calimanco, might

keep them decent and warm.

Our charity children are distinguished by their dress, why then may

not our women-servants? why may they not be made frugal per force,

and not suffered to put all on their backs, but obliged to save

something against a rainy day? I am, therefore, entirely against

servants wearing of silks, laces, and other superfluous finery; it

sets them above themselves, and makes their mistresses contemptible

in their eyes. I am handsomer than my mistress, says a young

prinked up baggage, what pity it is I should be her servant, I go

as well dressed, or better than she. This makes the girl take the

first offer to be made a whore, and there is a good servant

spoiled; whereas, were her dress suitable to her condition, it

would teach her humility, and put her in mind of her duty.

Besides the fear of spoiling their clothes makes them afraid of

household-work; so that in a little time we shall have none but

chambermaids and nurserymaids; and of this let me give one

instance; my family is composed of myself and sister, a man and a

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